Relationships Are Hard

Me and Claire have been together for a little over a month now and I think it's going well. We have the usually small fall outs but haven't actually had anything even close to an argument.

It's unreal how happy that makes me because most girls are sick of me well before we make it to the one month mark. I'm not saying it's easy because I'm still adjusting to life with a girlfriend. One thing that I have noticed is I have more confidence. On top of that I find I sleep much better when Claire is here with me.

One of the biggest issues that I have related to creating content for my blog is "writer's block". If I get distracted from writing mid way through a post it just goes which is rather annoying. I have spoken to a number of other bloggers and it seems that they write posts well in advance. By that I mean they can have a number of posts just waiting there for them so if they have a bad day they don't need to bother writing. Now I don't do that. Most of my posts are written on the day they go live.

The truth is, relationships are hard, they are hard for everyone, not just people on the spectrum. Many people out there like to give off the idea that they have a “perfect” relationship. Personally, I hold the opinion that there is no such thing as a perfect relationship. We’re all human, and as such we argue, we fall out, we are impulsive. The reason for all of those things is because we have emotions.

Thanks everyone for reading my usual ramblings,

Spec.