Fall Out

So today I managed to fall out with someone but that didn’t really bother me because I know that I did nothing wrong. I am one of those people that will always tell someone the truth and there are many people in the world that lie to themselves and want to hear nothing but the lie that they tell themselves.

No the reason that I really wasn’t bothered by falling out with this person because it happens more often than you would think and I didn’t actually know this person for very long. The problem that I had in this situation is that the person that I was talking to tried to make me feel sorry for them every time that I had something negative to say about them and it didn’t work. I don’t do feeling sorry for people one bit so it didn’t concern me when they went ahead with attempting to make me feel bad.

I do feel bad when I say something that I intent to be hurtful, which is something that doesn’t happen very often. But when it does I am mature enough to go and say sorry for what I said but I haven’t always been like that. In the past when I was younger I often did things that hurt people and I didn’t say sorry because I didn’t care. As I have got older though, I have learnt that it can be useful to say sorry to help mitigate more problems down the line that would happen if I wasn’t to say sorry when it’s needed.

Now just as a side note I am in need of success stories from the week to publish tomorrow for “success Sundays” which is the first of two theme days that will be happening in the blog. The other is Mondays by Mum which will start this Monday coming so don’t forget to send in your questions for my mum to answer.

Thanks for reading and as always, a little patience can go a long way,

Spec.